A friend of mine has recently admitted to having an ed, and it got me thinking about how everyone has an individual experience.
For me, the warning signs were weighing out food and becoming increasingly inflexible about deviating from my food plans. Those were behaviours that people noticed as being obsessive and abnormal. But for her. it is different. She has become very spontaneous about eating, because she gets so hungry that she eats exactly what she craves, followed by nothing for several hours (length depending on the ed voice).
So, what changed when your disorder developed?